Respect Before You Speak Or Type.
Please show respect before you speak or type anything online! As Americans we not only have the right to free speech, but we also hold the responsibility of treating others with respect. We are better than that!
How many times have you felt like you:
- had to be cautious of what you said out loud?
- should be careful of what you post online, especially Facebook?
- needed to scroll past posts because you knew if you commented, you would be verbally attacked?
- it was time to unfollow family/friends because you just didn’t want to see “it” anymore?
Sound familiar? When you step back and look at the whole picture, it is rather sad. The amount of negativity and drama that is shared online every day. I personally avoid drama-big time. I have no room for it in my life and it serves no purpose.
Since when did everyone become, judge, jury, and executioner?
Creating content is one task that can be very tricky to compose it in a way that won’t be offensive or end up being taken out of context can be very complex. With that being said, I have to be me and point out the obvious that everyone seems to be going out of there way to avoid. As I said earlier, as Amercian citizens, we have the right to free speech. That, however, does not mean we should verbally voice negativity against others. Frankly, it is infuriating to watch and read. So many times, I would love to jump in and ask what gives them the right to be so harsh, name call and criticize one’s character, physical appearance, opinion, or anything else for that matter. As it was said, “He that is without sin among you, let him cast the first stone.”
People who tend to voice their “opinion”, seem to forget that they are not perfect. No one is! We all should strive to do better and treat others as we would want to be treated. Posters may have a valid point and the right to be heard but how you go about it shows a side of you that may not show your true character. Most of us would not want to be judged on one incident.
For example, I follow local newspapers or pages that are local to my area. They talk about road accidents, things going on around the city, someone has a missing dog, etc. I read the comments because they usually include updates from the time it was posted. I tend to find over half of the comments are bashing of some kind. What happened to the original post? It has been taken over by commentary that frankly doesn’t belong there.
Whether you agree or disagree with me is fine. We can discuss it like mature adults without all the drama. In fact, I welcome a difference of an opinion because I want to know and understand someone else’s viewpoint. We can debate about it in a healthy way without it getting all kinds of ugly. If you want to debate, just have the facts ready.
I do notice that many who are guilty of the drama side of things do not have all the facts. This is where personal responsibility plays a major role, doing your own homework and fact checking before entering into a discussion like this. Typically there are two sides to every story, but as history has shown, there are in fact three. There are each other’s versions and then there is the truth. Everyone seems to have their own version of that. How many times do you wish you had a recorded a conversation because the other party denies ever saying XYZ? I know I have!
Whether you are on Facebook or anywhere for that matter, treating others with RESPECT should be automatic. By being negative or verbally attacking someone, what does it really accomplish? As the saying goes, don’t talk about religion or politics because it is sure to lead to an argument. Statistics show this happens a lot over a holiday meal. It doesn’t have to be this way.
Having an online business also requires responsibility on my part on the image I uphold. Would I love to voice my two cents? You bet I would. I don’t. We as individuals and as Americans, need to take a second look at how we conduct ourselves first. Just because you can, doesn’t mean you should. Especially when it comes to online and social media. Why? Because it is the right thing to do. This country as a whole has steered so far away from that entire concept, We need to get back to that and so much more. Self Improvement is a good place to start.
I personally don’t post anything I would not want my 88-year-old mother to read. Yes, my mom is on Facebook. Often times, she will ask what is wrong and why did (Person A) post that. What is the meaning of it? Now, when I have to do damage control on my adult children, you bet I will. Parenting never stops. If I have to answer for it, so do they. Yes, they have the right to “their opinion” but it doesn’t make it right and they should know better. Most times, I tell my mom to keep scrolling and ignore it. As I think many of us should. Think about it, it may just bring some peace at least for the moment.
“Before you speak, let your words pass through three gates:
Is it true? Is it necessary? Is it kind?” ― A Sufi Saying
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3 Main Reasons I Chose SiteGround As My Hosting Company
- Better Customer 24/7 Support
I am going to be totally honest here. SiteGround Hosting was not my first choice. I have used a variety of website builders and hosting companies over the years. GoDaddy, Hostgator, IPage, and BlueHost to name a few. Now all are good depending on what services are most important to you. Customer Service is huge for me.
Customer Service and Support
If I have too many bad experiences with customer service, I am moving on. That being one of the reasons I have gone through so many hosting companies. Hostgator which was good, but I had many issues with the site being down and our site getting hacked. The services from GoDaddy was great. Their website builder didn’t have the features I wanted for our website; The Wahm Addict. So I started over and went back to WordPress. Best decision I ever made. I will never change again.
When I decided to rebuild, I went with BlueHost. The process was easy and I had my site up and running in no time at all. Now, while I did this, I kept my original site up so I did not lose any downtime. I own 3 different domains (all from GoDaddy) so I just rebuilt using a different domain. There is a bit of backstory behind the three domains. You can learn about how we obtained our old domain selling for $3000 for just $10 in our blog post “Buying a Domain? Read This First!”
March 2017, I had my new site set up and ready to go but there were issues again with downtime and some other technical things that most BlueHost reps couldn’t help with. They would just pass me along to as a ticket with no real answers. Signing on for support services and repeating that process a couple of times a day just to get a different representative to help was a huge waste of time. I could see if it was something on my end, but it was not and they clarified that point, but it was a little too late. All my research and recommendations led me to something more reliable which was SiteGround. Even my cancelation from BlueHost and the refund was incorrect. The receipts proved it but it was just a joke by that point. I just accepted it and move on.
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They Are Not All Created Equal!
The Female Entrepreneur Association’s Members’ Club is an incredible group of female entrepreneurs and it’s helped me to grow my business so much that I wanted to tell you about it in case you’re looking for extra support in your business. Enrollment is actually closed for the group, but for this month only I’m allowed to invite my friends to join! Joining the Female Entrepreneur Association was one of best decisions I’ve made for my business. For me, it was actually about surrounding myself with like-minded women who are driven, have passion and a positive mindset.
Why I Chose To Join.
Through the years I have collected guidelines, cheatsheets, and classes that were all free. The folders on my desktop are full of PDF’s, ebooks and swipe files. We won’t get into the numerous binders and files on my desk that I use for quick reference. In short, I am THE Wahm Addict! I just love resources! Which is why the FEA was a great fit.
You can sign up for every free opt-in available, but being part of a paid membership program provides so much more and on a deeper level. Learning at your own pace is a fantastic option because as women and moms, we are always multi-tasking. Working around various schedules tends to not allow much time for learning new skills. This learning style makes it convenient for everyone at any level in business. I wish I knew about this when I was first starting out. It could have made all the difference.
Finding what you need is super easy and there are multiple ways to obtain the information. The bundles include a description of the class, what is being taught and who the expert is and their experience. So you know you are learning from someone who has mastered the skill. Video presentations, guided visualizations in an mp4 format are just the beginning. There is a bundle for just about everything from creating images to creating online courses. How to master Facebook Ads, List Building, and Blogging and more.
I am a visual learner so the huge selection of printables helps me by having the checklist or workbook in hand while watching or listening to one of the master classes and those are recorded so if you can’t make it to the live sessions, it is there when you are ready! Each month they host 2 live sessions that have monthly goal setting & planning workshops as well as a masterclass. You can also get an accountability partner! This was the first group I have ever belonged to that offered that kind of support.
A few of my favorite bundles within the member’s area are The Website bundle, Social Media Pro, The Graphics Bundle and the Powerful Printables Bundle. We all learn differently and being able to watch the How-to videos has helped me be able to do things on my own and I can always refer back to it when I need to. Being able to pick and choose what I want to learn (and when) without going through a ton of other modules saves me so much time. The Q & A’s and Bonuses are too many to describe here. There is so much to cover, I can’t do it all in one blog post. That is why I invite you to reach out to me and let’s chat about it and see if it is a good fit for you!
The Facebook Group
Then there is the Facebook group. It is like a 24/7/365 biz cafe where you can solve your problems and get answers to your questions. It’s one of the best group I’ve ever belonged to. I also belong to the sister group which is from the book; She Means Business. You can watch the video about the book on our Facebook page.
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If you would like to chat about my experience, please feel free to contact me anytime. I am here to help. If you decide to join, I would love for you to connect with me and share your thoughts about what you did first when first signed in. I can’t wait. I am so excited to see you on the inside!
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Can you believe that this year is coming to an end?
Let me ask you this;
- Did 2017 leave you with wanting more?
- Did you make YEAR-END Goals?
- Did you complete your PERSONAL Goals?
- Did you reach your BUSINESS Goals?
The question now is, What are you going to do differently? Seriously, if things in 2017 didn’t go as you had hoped, what are you going to do to change it?
Now is the time to really take a long hard look at yourself and your business. Being honest is the only way a positive change will happen! Getting clear on what you stand for, what is important to you and what is your why will help you help you take the next step.
“New Year’s Day. A fresh start. A new chapter in life waiting to be written. New questions to be asked, embraced, and loved. Answers to be discovered and then lived in this transformative year of delight and self-discovery. Today carve out a quiet interlude for yourself in which to dream, pen in hand. Only dreams give birth to change.”
Sarah Ban Breathnach
What is your legacy?
I want my children to not only understand but embrace the original reason I started my business. How my mission was to help those starting out to help fulfill their dreams! It was never about the money. It was about putting people first. I was raised on the foundation that a deal can be made with a handshake and you honored it. Period. I want my kids to know what honor and commitment truly mean, not just what they read on Google. I want them to be Good People that truly care and are willing to help without always expecting in return. My kids are now adults and to say that I am proud of them is an understatement.
Start Your New Year with Fulfillment!
- Do what makes YOU Happy!
- Stay true to what YOU Know!
- Try not to overextend yourself!
“I hope that in this year to come, you make mistakes. Because if you are making mistakes, then you are making new things, trying new things, learning, living, pushing yourself, changing yourself, changing your world. You’re doing things you’ve never done before, and more importantly, you’re doing something.”
Thank you for a Fantastic Year!
Happy New Year!
Linda & Gina